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 What do you do when you've messed up bad. 
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So guys... ive known you pretty much longer than anyone.
Ive got a story to tell. il try to make it short.

I have been admin-ing with a few friends on a minecraft server.
these friends i've known at least 3-4 months. I met them there.
Recently they've been second guessing my admin decisions and making general clowns of themselves. They play on the server with a couple alt accounts.
I told someone else I know irl that they were the admins on the server.
and he started calling them by their admin names.
They think I burned them. Which to be honest... I kinda did in a moment of anger.

I didn't mean to... and ive made an utter fool of myself with it... I want to leave an never come back. To be honest they haven't been very nice anyway... but the real question is... what do you do when you've messed up this badly? I mean I think I just burned two friends by telling this guy. After they told me not to. To be honest I would much rather play with generally better people. But I don't know of any unless you guys want to...

Anyway... got any advice? Or encouragement? Or discouragement? il take that too. Even though I already feel pretty bad. Anyway, if you've got this far I thank you for caring enough to read it. Peace/Love to DRLFF.
Il also take advice on quitting minecraft.

Thanks guys.
for everything.
Hopefully things get better soon.


Sat Aug 11, 2012 7:50 am
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Apologize and sing a song with them,

Spongebob style.

But really, the way I see it is you're always in control of your own choices. If you decided to do something like that and burn them, apologize. Maybe they will too and things will go back to what they were before. Forgive and forget.

As all luvy duvy this sounds.


Sat Aug 11, 2012 8:03 am
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Funnily enough... I think this is more related to my own problems than theirs. I took your advice though. I said I was leaving with an apology and an offer of friendship at a later time. Hopefully things get better. But for now im going to take a break from minecraft... hopefully. That's the next thing to get past I suppose... my own problems with quitting MC... almost happened twice before. But now I think, at least for that server. I'm gone. I hope. :oops:


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F is for friends who do stuff together.
U is for you and me.
N is for anywhere and any time at all, down here in the deep blue sea.


Sat Aug 11, 2012 1:24 pm
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Roast Veg wrote:
F is for friends who do stuff together.
U is for you and me.
N is for anywhere and any time at all, down here in the deep blue sea.

Ooooh, that is so beautiful :D
And this remembers me of this, because the guy stopped playing Minecraft... he stopped using his computer, actually.


Sat Aug 11, 2012 1:45 pm
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F is for fire that burns down the whole town,
U is for uranium bombs,
N is for no surviiivors


Sat Aug 11, 2012 2:59 pm
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F is for frolic through all the flowers.
U is for ukulele.
N is nose picking chewing gum and sand licking, here with my best buddy.


Sat Aug 11, 2012 3:05 pm
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Egads man. Didn't mean for you to burst out in song. Hehe.

Thanks though, even still. :wink:
First day without minecraft. Need distractions.


Sat Aug 11, 2012 3:11 pm
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nicolasx wrote:
First day without minecraft. Need distractions.

How good of a RPer are you?

If your pretty good, try SS13.

Or rather, BS12, which is the best server because it's not a random slugfest.

BS12 is a top down game set on a space station, where people do their jobs that they selected, so security arrest people breaking into rooms, scientists do science or look after the metroid's, and engineers repair the station. There are random events that happen as the game is going on, like meteor showers, space carp, radiation belts, power grid checks and electrical storms.

Not only that, there are a ton of game modes, like traitor, nuke, cult (I like cult) , wizard and a few others, like blob.

You might find the game enjoyable.

I absolutely love cult mode. I found it fun when we captured the chapel, around 20 of us, I was stating our demands on the intercom and you could hear a ritual in the background of the intercom. It was great.

The community is really friendly, and there is a ton of information for new players.


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I'm gonna have to punch about half of you in the face for actually singing a spongebob song.
No hard feelings or anything, just, it needs to happen now.


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I know of a place where you never get harmed,
a magical place with magical charms:
indoors, indoors, indoors!


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I thought this was going to be about something in real life that actually mattered. I was disappointed.
C- thread, would not recommend. Spongebob song the only thing that kept it from being a D thread.


Sat Aug 11, 2012 6:28 pm
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I'm terribly sorry that I have to be that guy, but:

This isn't really that big of a ♥♥♥♥ up.
I describe messing up big time as: having sex with your girlfriend for the first time on her birthday, then cheating on her the day after with a girl you both met the day before. This would chase you forever.

Calling people by their admin names in minecraft, maybe a month or two.
As for the solution: confront, apologise, continue business as usual.


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I missed the SpongeBob song, so sad!


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I have to agree with Marteen. If that happened to me, I would say those guys were being kids. I mean, what's the problem with those alt accounts? Just delete/stop using them, and everything will be fine. Or maybe create another one, and everyone will get happy forever. Dude, they almost ended a friendship because you told people that they are admins... Dude, that is just so kiddish. I am thirteen, and I think that is idiot, really. If I were you I would just stop being friends with those admins. Sorry if understood wrong, but I understood that you were admin and some other admins had other alt accounts and you told someone about it and they stopped being your friends or something like that.


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